Tuesday, September 3, 2019

How to keep clean when you eat outside with your baby: A guide for new parents.


It's a norm for parents skip cooking and eat outside. Either for normal dinner/lunch/breakfast time or any special occasion like celebrating birthday etc. It can be also because we are tired, just wanna try something new etc. 

For parents with babies, we can't eat in a calm situation or even trying to keep it clean. Doctors encouraged us to let the baby feed themselves either using hands or fork and spoon to increase their cognitive abilities or senses.










Adam eat at restaurant - Food is everywhere - out from the plate, on table etc.



Tadaaa~... Food will be on the floor too.


It's ok to have the tables, chairs or floors messy with the foods but how do you wanna clean that wherever you went for eating?



1. Teach them on basic cleaning.


Don't forget to teach them to clean too. Babies as early as 12m++ learn to copy what adult is doing. We can just show good example, definitely they will follow. 


Even though it's only basic cleaning or kids only can contribute to small types of cleaning, remember that what we teach them now and continuously, will help them to grow to be a better person who knows and diligently being helpful in doing housework.


This will create a society that always put clean as priority wherever they go. Their future wife or husband will thank us later for putting a very good effort in raising them.




Adam trying to clean the table.



Putting them for cleaning time doesn't mean we are pressuring them but parent must remember! don't putt them into an excessive housework. That should be our job. Be smart and slowly asking them to do thing one by one.




2. Carry tiny size broom with you with extra wet tissue and tissues.






The tiny cleaning item we brought everywhere.



The tiny broom is about our palm size and comfortable to bring it anywhere. Use that broom to swipe the solid dirt, wet tissue is to swipe the dirts stain and then lastly use tissues. 






The tissue we use - easily brought anywhere to be used at anytime.




The wet tissue we used. This one we get for free each time we bought tissues.



It will just take a few minutes to get it done. Usually the waitress always said to us "please don't do it", "we're gonna do it ourselves", "it's our job" etc. 


But we insist to do it. 


In case if we don't have anyone else with us, we and just my baby, we just apologize and the restaurant workers will do it for us. 


This method we practiced for quite awhile now. It helps to raise awareness on cleaning for ourselves too and become example to other people. :)



As we are all being a normal parents, don't feel that guilty or bad for messing up people's places or restaurant. But do take positive action to get rid of that feelings. 



We can put better effort in order to create better environment.





All above writing is based on my personal opinion and only applied to whoever find it suitable to them because all babies and parents are different in character, situation etc. Lastly, thank you for reading my blog. ^_^




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Wednesday, August 28, 2019

How to do work when your baby is around: A new parents guide. (Tips for baby 6-18 months old)


Your baby sit on your stomach, climb up your back, playing with your hair/nose/mouth and act like wow it's so cutee...hugging and kissing..yeah we cannot miss that too..and yeahh...crying..of course sometimes it's a fake cry to get attention. 


This happen to any parents that doing work while their kids are around. But how actually you're gonna handle this?  ↓↓↓


1. Feed them first.



Check if they were hungry or thirsty. Give them milk or solid food if they can eat solid food already. Ensure you give healthy food yea :) 





2. Play with them before start doing work.


The baby need adult to teach them how to play with the toy. Just sit with them and play with until they just got it, and they will be in their own world. 




My baby is like that. I will leave him to play alone when he already in the mood and will not disturb him. 



But what if he get bored after that? They will surely go back to you and begging for attention.





This is my son Adam looking for his mum attention, cry but just for awhile. :D




3. Give pretend toy to play.




i think this is one of the most effective solutions. Babies really love to play adult's things instead of their toy. 



Why? because they watch us and try to copy us. TV remote, hair band, hand phone are the most babies favorite things in the world.


Try to think what did you do everyday, like cleaning? you may want to search for example any related kids broom or mop product and buy toy that toy. It is available everywhere in online shopping apps like shopee, lazada etc.




4. Get someone to take care of them. 



Get your spouse or family or friends to help you. Raising a kid is a teamwork. Everyone needs help. 



But make sure you only can trust these people to help you. A good spouse will always help each other and create harmony family in their home.


Well, you have followed all the tips above, it's already half day just to do it, and you'll feel tired. You still need to rest, cook, and do other things too. In the end your baby already had your whole day just for him. It's not something lame, it is normal. 



That's the most precious time with your baby and it will memorable moment when they grow up and you're gonna miss it. 


You're not doing it wrong. You just got it mom/dad. Parents always the best when they try to do best thing for their kids. 




So back to the topic, when actually you can do work if you're not tired?


- Do it when they sleep. That's gonna make you productive. :)





All above writing is based on my personal opinion and only applied to whoever find it suitable to them because all babies and parents are different in character, situation etc. Lastly, thank you for reading my blog. ^_^


#baby #clean #eat #food #outside #restaurant #tips #tipsforparents #tissue #wettissue #guide #new #newmom #newparents #love #littleone